An older entry moaned about the dearth of resources for people re-entering society. I’ve Loved You So Long shows what kind of support it might take a person to get back on their feet after 15 years in prison.
- An adoring little sister who’s willing to support you no matter how reticent and angrily you behave.


- A nice place to lay your head at night.

- A sophisticated and patient love interest who happens to have spent 10 years teaching inmates about literature.

- A smart niece that wants you to teach her cool stuff.

- Plenty of cigarettes and time to mull things over.

- A couple shots at jobs that a non-stigmatized laborer would covet.
- Redemptive water.

This movie is really moving. The acting is super good, and if you don’t cry, probably you have bad lachrymal glands.
It feels preachy at times, but that’s probably cuz I’m in the choir. For example, the protagonists love interest is pretty comfortable talking about the thin line between convicted felons and free people. He has this nice speech ready about how they’re all people.
It also tends to be an advertisement for how progressive and super cool France is. At one point this pleasant guitar music comes on and a bunch of care-free guys in wheel chairs race down the street. Cuz, you know, France is so inclusive and all.
I guess it’s not as cheery and fake as it seems though. The friendly sister, who goes all out to help the protagonist re-enter society, is portrayed as a total bitch toward one of her students.
Her curtness is totally understandable in the context of a demanding middle class life. But it’s repeated two or three times in this movie. I look at it as a reminder that an important part of French society is not represented in I’ve Loved You So Long. In a sort of round about way this is a movie about the North African immigrants who live in the banlieues and have the majority of experience with cops and prison.



